Failure to ostracize
May. 31st, 2022 12:42 pmThere is an indirect but real harm that I will call "failure to ostracize". Last year, I realized something peculiar about this harm: It cannot, in and of itself, be a harm worthy of ostracizing. I don't mean anything about how bad this particular harm is or isn't: I mean that logically, that consequence would break the world.
Call it a transitive property, or proof by induction, or whatever you like. Assume that it is appropriate to ostracize someone for failing to ostracize someone else. One person, Perry Problematic, does something bad, in such circumstances that the best course of action is to ostracize them for it. A handful of people continue their association with Perry. Those people need to be ostracized. Then, everyone who associates with those people need to be ostracized. This "guilt by association" continues to spread out, and soon encompasses everyone in the world aside from a few isolated populations and hermits.
There are plenty of other ways that a person might address a failure to ostracize: Calling in, calling out, orbital lasers, etc. But if you think it's right to ostracize someone for it, you must ostracize everyone you know, even your most upright heroes, or you must be inconsistent in applying your rules.
There's an awful lot more to say on the subject, and it's the sort of high-selmer, deep dive post that I would like to spend ten hours writing while I forget to eat. (A selmer is a unit equal to tangents per second. If you know, you know.) The discussion of whether to ostracize someone, and the consequences, costs, and viability thereof, touches on:
Call it a transitive property, or proof by induction, or whatever you like. Assume that it is appropriate to ostracize someone for failing to ostracize someone else. One person, Perry Problematic, does something bad, in such circumstances that the best course of action is to ostracize them for it. A handful of people continue their association with Perry. Those people need to be ostracized. Then, everyone who associates with those people need to be ostracized. This "guilt by association" continues to spread out, and soon encompasses everyone in the world aside from a few isolated populations and hermits.
There are plenty of other ways that a person might address a failure to ostracize: Calling in, calling out, orbital lasers, etc. But if you think it's right to ostracize someone for it, you must ostracize everyone you know, even your most upright heroes, or you must be inconsistent in applying your rules.
There's an awful lot more to say on the subject, and it's the sort of high-selmer, deep dive post that I would like to spend ten hours writing while I forget to eat. (A selmer is a unit equal to tangents per second. If you know, you know.) The discussion of whether to ostracize someone, and the consequences, costs, and viability thereof, touches on:
- Geek Social Fallacies
- Childhood trauma
- Conscious versus subconscious reasoning
- Social proof
- Missing stairs
- Social capital/privilege
- Pandemic behaviors
- Bullying
- PAX
- Daryl Davis
- Other stuff that will occur to me while writing, beyond the ten minutes spent composing the post in my head before getting up this morning.