blimix: Joe by a creek in the woods (Default)
I spent the past week volunteering at the Reptile Adventure pavilion at the Altamont Fair. It was an absolute blast!

The Altamont Fair is the biggest event of the year, in this area. The targeted audience is the surrounding rural community: The barns full of prize-winning livestock are (IMO) the central attraction. But the city folk take a day off to attend, too. There are many rides, games, informative exhibits, concerts, demonstrations and entertaining shows.

And we had people telling us, over and over, that Reptile Adventure was their favorite exhibit.

We had the best exhibit. At the biggest event of the year. That's just mind-blowing. I'm very proud of, and happy for, [livejournal.com profile] botia for creating this awesome thing.

We, her assistants, had a grand time telling people about the animals (stuff we learned from [livejournal.com profile] botia, but we got to feel erudite repeating it to visitors in conversational tones as if we had always known it), chatting with reptile enthusiasts, helping people enjoy petting and holding the snakes, and especially gently converting people who had been terrified of snakes for their whole lives — people who often left reluctantly, yearning to have snakes of their own.

The final day of the fair was cold and rainy. Instead of having our hands full interacting with guests, we had our hands full keeping snakes and lizards warm. (For a while, I had two rat snakes inside my shirt, a tiny hognose snake in my shirt pocket, and a Central American boa draped around my neck and arms. Good times.) So our visitors got even more one-on-one interaction than usual, and could hold snakes for as long as they wanted.

Pictures from the first two days can be found here. There will be many more later.
blimix: Joe by a creek in the woods (Guitar)
Two weeks ago, I wrote, "The hills southeast of Haifa are lovely." So when the subject of day trips came up, I recalled that area, and that's where we hiked last Monday: Mount Carmel National Park. I got at least one good picture, but (like all the others) it'll have to wait until I have time for editing and uploading. Lovely hills and canyons there.

I performed a major shopping trip alone, at a local grocery where they only spoke Hebrew and Arabic. (And many of the labels were likewise.) It felt like a bit of an adventure; I got most of what I needed (and was satisfied that they did not carry the two remaining items). I have since cooked my Irish sodabread and mushroom and barley soup, both acclaimed.

I walked Molly to the gym, and walked back, navigating the serpentine streets of Alfei Menashe alone for the first time. I didn't exactly get lost; I just didn't know where I was or where the house was. But I befriended a small dog on the way, and sat for a bit in a park. (I had no trouble returning to the house once I felt like it.)

Gabby's friends think I'm cute. This exasperates her, and she has to remind them that I'm thirty-one years old. (She did it in Hebrew, but I understood.) They and Cecelia have been giving me fashion tips. It's about time for a new pair of glasses anyway. I should bring Cecelia: She seems to have an impeccable sense of aesthetics and fashion.

I've started reading Sophie's World by Jostein Gaarder. It's been on my "Must Read" list for years (thanks to [livejournal.com profile] leora, I think), and is pretty interesting.

I've also been trying to read the Hebrew on street signs and candy packages. Cecelia was impressed when I asked, "Why do you have an Aegozi mug?" Aegozi (my translation) is a yummy candy bar that we enjoyed after the hike; I intend to bring some home.

Last night, we had a hot windstorm, complete with fine dust, blowing in from the desert. We've also been getting occasional, unseasonably late rains. But other days are quite nice.

I asked why Jews aren't aloud to speak the name of God. (I broke the rule as I asked.) I had thought there might be some deeply philosophical link between that and the idea that "The Tao that can be named is not the true Tao". But it turns out, in the great spirit of Jewish law, to be a rule put in place so that one doesn't accidentally break another rule (the restriction against taking His name in vain — that is, swearing falsely by it). (Every time I hypothesize a good reason for a rule, the truth disappoints me.)

Molly and I thoroughly cleaned her room yesterday. I took a break to play guitar for my cousins and their friends. We were exhausted by the end, but stayed up to split an avocado and some mild Camembert cheese.

Okay, time to do something other than write.
blimix: Joe by a creek in the woods (Hat)
I almost never give rides to strangers, and thanks to today, I'm not about to start making a habit of it.

On the way out of the Hannaford parking lot, I wound up giving some guy a ride downtown. He said he wanted to catch a 3:15 bus up to Glens Falls, and the city bus wouldn't make the connection. (It was already 2:55.) On the way down, he explained that he hated the homeless shelter in Albany, and so had called and reserved a spot for the night at a place in Glens Falls. And then he asked me for money to help buy the ticket. With all the usual, fast-paced, high pressure spiel that goes along with a begging pitch around here - how he has work lined up there, and will mail me back the money, etc, etc. I did him one better, and offered to pay for the entire ticket myself - I would buy it for him. No repayment needed.

Boy, did that piss him off. So he got somewhat abusive. I was as polite as possible, including firm but delicately phrased objections to his treatment of me, and still accompanied him into the Greyhound station (where I could buy the ticket, rather than the Empire Plaza stop for the upstate tour bus, because one just pays on the bus there), because he hadn't actually refused. He finally did refuse the offer once we were at the desk and I had asked the ticket price (which was less than I had expected). He didn't want to have to wait that long, he said. So he asked me to just drive him to the Plaza, which I did, because there was still a chance that he needed the bus (even though he clearly would have preferred money). He became very verbally abusive on the way, including threatening violence, warning me not to go to the police, etc. I remained polite and conciliatory the whole time. He was all talk, but I didn't need to test that. Then he tried begging me for money again, when I parked at the plaza. He was being persistent, and I wasn't sure that he would leave the car. But I told him, "You've been threatening my life. That's not a way to convince people to give you money." That shut him up, and he left.

Was it foolish of me to try to help him? A bit, but I was pretty sure that he was no actual threat. And I had nowhere else to be, so why not go out of my way to help someone when I can? Still, no more rides for strangers in parking lots.

I wish I had a recording of the entire conversation. It was an interesting exercise in restraint and tact while holding firm. And it was, perhaps, a demonstration of the futility of tact in a situation in which someone is unwilling to admit to the reason that they are angry.
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