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The day before I left on a road trip last month I booked my hostel in Cape Town. When I arrived today they asked my name, scanned my passport, let me put my bags in storage, and said to come back at 3pm to check in. I went on a lovely aimless wander through town and returned to the desk. I wasn't on the list of people checking in today. The attendant poked through his computer and said I'd reserved in March, but the email they sent bounced and the number I registered isn't on WhatsApp[1]. I looked at the event I'd created in Google Calendar and saw I'd written "Check email or call to confirm." I'd assumed they were going to send an email during South African working hours, then promptly forgot about this TODO item during a week on the road. Oops.

Fortunately, traveling to Cape Town is more like my memories of Central America and not like modern Amsterdam, at least in shoulder season. I was able to find another hostel with an open room for a week just four blocks away. As expected, dragging my three heavy bags along the sidewalk was workable but not a lot of fun.

Speaking of my three heavy bags, before I bought my Turkish Airlines ticket I noticed their baggage page said carry-on bags are limited to 8kg. I'd never seen or heard of a carryon getting weighed, and it sounded like something a budget airline like Frontier or Spirit would do, not a flag carrier set on making Istanbul one of the busiest airports in the world. A quick Internet search found some Reddit threads with anecdata of cabin luggage not getting weighed, so I bought the ticket and mostly forgot about this limit. When I arrived at DEN (3 hours early, thankfully) the Star Alliance agent told me to weigh my carry-on first. Uh-oh. My clever packing plan had been to put my whole portable ham radio backpack in a wheelie bag, plus a change of underwear and some card games and small electronics in a big pocket. I knew this would be way more than 8kg because I'd tested the backpack radio kit on a short walk and it's heavy. (I have a lighter option, but I'm worried I'll need 45 watts to get my signal somewhere with enough hams to chase me for the magical 10 QSOs POTA target.) Fortunately there are luggage scales around the corner from the check-in counter, so I spent 45 minutes experimentally moving about 23 lbs from one suitcase to my two checked bags (each with about 5 lbs of spare weight) and my backpack, which has a width-expanding zipper. The next agent cheerfully weighed my exactly-8kg bag and checked my two exactly-50kg bags and handed me a baggage tag for my backpack without visually inspecting that it was clearly too big to fit under an airplane seat. As soon as I was out of eyesight I moved my camera bag, card games, and pockets full of granola bars back to the carry-on, knowing the gate agents have better things to do than weigh everyone's bags before they get on the plane.

I'm now going to be super aware of any objects I acquire on this trip. I'll obviously eat all the snacks, and gifting a lot of metal buttons will clear up some weight. But I'm also going to receive gifts, plus my AfrikaBurn shirt and hat. Hopefully my last lodging has a bathroom scale… or the CPT ticket agents are more chill.

8 kilograms is remarkably light for a carry-on. I was down to a mostly-empty backpack, a medical infejection pen, a folder with a dozen pieces of paper, and a fluffy pillow. I don't think I've ever had a bag this light on a plane, except my return trip from China when I put an erhu in a cardboard box in the bin. My empty suitcase probably weighs a kilo on its own. The rest of the flight experience was fine, but needing to leave a big void in my carry-on makes me not want to fly Turkish again. My lithium batteries aren't allowed in checked bags, so it makes no sense to require me to put them under the seat in a backpack while packing bulky light items like pillows in a hard-to-reach spot. Judging by the amount of space in the overhead bins they made a lot of money on extra bag fees, though perhaps they lost out on selling extra freight space.

[1] In much of the world, WhatsApp has largely replaced the open phone system because Wi-Fi and mobile data are cheaper than SMS, particularly internationally.
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The lawsuit preventing the sale of my home is going to mediation in June and trial in September. I'm trying to think through what sort of settlement offers I'd be willing to accept. Here's my take on the possible trial outcomes:

Likelihood

Outcome

Net Result

1%

Lose the property and the restoration cost

-$2M+ debt

2%

Forced sale minus restoration cost and other damages

-$1M debt

2%

Forced sale minus restoration cost

+$100k cash, -$700k debt

25%

Forced sale

+$800k cash/mortgage

40%

Case is a wash and I sell to new buyers

+$1-2M cash

10%

I win damages and sell to new buyers

+$1-2M cash, +?? damages 

20%

Buyer appeals; timeline extends 1–2 years

One of the above, later

Those net results are based on losing or getting rid of the property and taking into account the ~$700k I owe mostly to friends right now, the increases in property value in the last two years, and commission on the sales. There are smaller variables (e.g. foreclosure risk, market fluctuations, interest, court costs), but enumerating every possible combination would probably be counterproductive.

My expected value based on the above is ~$1.1M, with an expected time to exit of ~10 months. He previously offered ~$550k, which would have left me $150k in debt so I immediately declined.

Based purely on those numbers, if he offered me better than my EV in terms of cash and time, I should probably accept it. Or I should offer to dismiss all claims on both sides.

But this isn't just about the hard immediate numbers for me. There are factors that would increase my number. I care about the value of the  years of my life he has consumed/wasted. I care about dissuading people from trying to rip me off in the future, and this guy from trying to rip off other people. I care about justice and legal precedent. I care about fulfilling my obligations. I care about the psychological impact this decision will have on me. There are factors that could decrease my number. I might be wrong about the value of the property, or the likelihood of the bad outcomes, particularly my performance in court.

What else should I be considering? Where can I get help firming up these predictions? I welcome feedback on any part of this, in public or private.


Shabbat food

Apr. 17th, 2026 05:58 pm
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This week I’m hosting a tiny Shabbat dinner (two guests) and lunch (one guest).

Today’s food prep:
  • challah
  • split pea soup with barley, carrots*, garlic, Impossible sausage, onion, tomato pasted
  • sauted Baby Bella mushrooms for hummus
  • roasted Brussels sprouts
  • roasted beets* and rutabaga*
  • roasted zucchini, tomato, lemon, onion
  • roasted garlic
  • salmon with preserved lemon and whole wheat panko
  • potato salad with dill, parsley, and chives*
  • improv peach crisp with rice flour, walnut meal, and buckwheat flour topping
  • ginger cake
  • green salad with cucumbers and sunflower seeds
  • beef stew/cholent with onions, tomato paste, diced lemon, diced lime, farro, chickpeas, and Vadavan seasoning

* locally sourced

Ocean islands

Apr. 17th, 2026 02:35 pm
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Why is the Pacific Ocean fuller of islands than the Atlantic and Indian Oceans?

(Or am I wrong that it is? It sure seems to be, though, and I don't think it's just an illusion created by the Pacific being larger and therefore having more total islands.)

Today's version of Microwave Layers

Apr. 16th, 2026 05:43 pm
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Today's version of Microwave Layers is:

  • rice
  • a chopped avocado
  • a sprinkle of lemon juice
  • 5 slices of salami, chopped into roughly eighths
  • medium cheddar

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Apr. 16th, 2026 06:25 pm
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I'm trying to be better at _stuff_. The warm weather is coming back, so that's helping. I despair a little, wondering if it will ever be possible to put structures into place that actually support me year round.

(I have also been despairing a little, lo these last six months or so, as I stumble over wordsing from 2020 and realize that I was probably mentally healthier then, which is wild considering how much worse certain things were. The end of the world has been fuckin' _hard_, y'all! I'm glad for the ways in which there is good community to ride it through with.)

Next week is April vacation, and I will fuck around town for the weekend, then go down as efficiently as I can to Providence to hang with Tuesday for the week --it only just struck me today that I would most likely be leaving on Monday, meaning I'll be trying to travel on public transit on Marathon Day. I'm sure this will be fine.

(It will not be fine, but I am willing to be very very patient.)

The real tricky part will be packing --I need to figure out if I'm going straight to NEFFA from Tues's, which will be an extra layer of packing. I would also like to not bring an infinity of grading with me, so maybe I can get the tests graded over the weekend? This does not feel likely.

But I am looking forward to being floppy and low-maintenance in someone else's space. Make some food, play some video games, do some knitting, perhaps. Maybe I can bring useful projects that I want to work on down with me, and try and do some of that while Tues is at work. We'll see.

Work proper has been rough as hell, in ways I don't care for. It's non-renewing week, where everyone who didn't get hired back learns this fact, often with very little warning. I am Not Happy about the structures in place that are causing that. It would be nice if there were better ways to cope with supervisors who routinely eat rocks for breakfast and refuse to actually engage with their employees in a way that's remotely helpful.

Also we're t-minus one wakeup until April Vacation and the children are READY for it. Which is tentatively fine, but gosh, it sure would be nice if they were also READY for Geometry along the way.

At least I get to walk home with my work-bestie. That part is lovely! And I had a student trust me with the very early stages of their transition, and ask me today if I would tell some other staff on their behalf (because they felt nervous to do it themself). It felt very honoring!

There is hope for the future, or maybe there is just community and joy right now.

~Sor
MOOP!
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In a few hours I'll be on an airplane en route to Cape Town for AfrikaBurn, South Africa's regional Burning Man event. On the way back I'll be taking a couple weeks in Benelux so I can get in my Burning Man ranger training in Amsterdam and check out some old art and old crafts in the Low Countries. You can vicariously view my adventures in this shared photo album, and I'll try to post here a time or two.

My parents spent three months backpacking in Europe in 1972, and have been telling stories about the trip for over 50 years. Not only would they not be physically able to take that same trip now, many of the experiences they had are no longer available: 2020s Europe is a very different place than 1970s Europe.

As I've been preparing for this trip I've been recalling the trip Molly and I took to Guatemala and Honduras in 2009. Besides buying round-trip plane tickets and reading the Lonely Planet, we hadn't made any plans for our nine week trip. The first night we planned out a route with approximate times in each town. We'd get off the bus in a new place and walk to a LP-recommended hostel and say "Hi, we'd like a room for a few nights." Cell phones were abundant, but smartphones hadn't yet made much headway in Latin America, so everything was very face-to-face. Every week or so we'd check in at an Internet café or the shared computer in a hostel to check email and share a rambling travelogue with friends.

Fast forward a decade and a half, and travel planning is way more front-loaded. Every detail of a trip can be booked online in advance, though I've tried to only book things that I'll be very upset if I don't have, like lodging and tickets to key destinations. Today you can't just show up to the Rijksmuseum, buy a ticket, and check out the paintings. You need to book a specific time slot, several days in advance. If you're not feeling well, or it's a beautiful day and you'd rather go to the beach, too bad: you won't be able to go to the museum tomorrow. I had to put together a spreadsheet with two activities per day for two weeks in Benelux, two months in advance. I made sure to leave a couple open spots for spontaneity.

In 2009 Molly said "As long as you've got your passport and your toothbrush you're good to go." Smartphones have now become the other key travel item. Visiting a museum? Show the QR code on your phone. Need a taxi? Order an Uber on your phone. Buying food? Tap to pay on your phone. If my phone gets stolen, I'm not even sure I'll be able to find a desktop computer so I can organize a response. (This scenario is why I don't have two-factor on my GMail account: I want to go from "everything was stolen" to "I can send an email for help.") Molly and my late-20s travel instincts of carefully guarding a debit card and occasionally withdrawing cash at a secure bank ATM is going to feel awkward in Europe where websites keep telling me they don't even accept cash.

As I age, I also seem to acquire stuff that I need to carry around. In 2009 I brought a regular backpack and a hand bag of clothes; Molly just had a regular backpack. (I had a DSLR camera and socks, neither of which Molly brought.) When I packed my bags this week I discovered that my mental packing on the big suitcase was spot on, but it was way over the 50 pound limit. So now I'll be dragging three suitcases and a backpack over cobbled streets in old cities. One for camping and sleeping gear at AfrikaBurn, one for clothes and useful items, one for ham radio gear. The backpack's still got a DSLR, because even though smartphones have become our key digital items, travel photos with a proper camera body and lens just feel different.

(social) media appearances

Apr. 16th, 2026 11:14 am
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Post-game interview on Facebook for the game against Invicta on Sunday (we lost 10-1). Favourite comment from a friend: "you both pulled such funny faces when the other one was speaking".

My feedback on the Hull camp shared (with permission) on their Facebook page: "I've enjoyed all the camps so far and I think they're good value for money. I think they're helping me improve as a player, and I've definitely seen other players level up in skill and confidence after attending. I'm very much looking forward to three whole days in July. I also really value the friendships I've been building with players from other teams, who I met because of these camps, and the mutual support we've been able to give each other over this past season."

Upcoming: BUIHA will live stream Nationals this weekend on YouTube, my games that will definitely be on it are:

  • Sat 15:15 Cambridge Huskies v Leeds Gryphons B
  • Sat 18:18 Cambridge Huskies v Nottingham Mavericks C
  • Sun 14:20 Birmingham Lions B v Cambridge Huskies
  • Sun 19:25 Oxford Women's Blues v Cambridge Huskies

(There's one more group-stage game that will be played on the other ice pad and not streamed, and then depending on how we do in group, we'll be assigned to the semi finals for either Bronze, Silver or Gold finals so we'll have up to two more games on Sunday.)

A sadness: two MA colleges

Apr. 14th, 2026 01:46 pm
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Hampshire College has announced that they’re closing at the end of the fall 2026 semester (Why in the middle of the academic year? I have no idea, but it seems really odd.).

https://www.cbsnews.com/boston/news/hampshire-college-closing-amherst-massachusetts/

I’ve never been there, but apparently it’s part of my emotional-geographical mental landscape anyway, given my need to post about it: so many years of listening to WFCR in the mornings, WBUR in the evenings growing up. (Apparently WFCR is just known now as the western MA NPR affiliate, not Five College Radio. And four starts with F, too.) This is yet another sadness in an already challenging time. I feel badly for the current students, and worse for the employees. Will the other four institutions in the five college area be hiring? What will happen to the campus? It won’t help the local businesses, either.

Closer to where I grew up, apparently Anna Maria College’s future is also shaky. I have a lot of the same questions, though presumably that not being definite gives people more time to plan?

https://www.cbsnews.com/boston/news/anna-maria-college-massachusetts-risk-of-closing/?intcid=CNR-02-0623

Events of note

Apr. 13th, 2026 09:50 pm
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Tony and I saw Project Hail Mary approx 18 hours after watching Artemis II launchspace fiction and space mission )

Then on Saturday I went with Cambridge Women's Blues to play in BUIHA Womens Tier 1 Nationals 25-26: Read more... )

Nationals was followed by two days of work and also staying up late last Tuesday night/Wednesday morning after hockey practice to watch Integrity go out of contact behind the moon and then reappear. (There was actual video of the Earth appearing from behind the Moon, sent from an actual spaceship, in real time, it was amazing!)

Wednesday night I drove with two passengers to Hull, after Kodiaks practice, so we could all attend the women's ice hockey camp Thursday and Friday.more ice hockey )

That was six days in a row of playing ice hockey and unsurprisingly I have been tired today. This week is "just" Tuesday practice and BUIHA Non-Checking Tier 1 Nationals with Cambridge Huskies this weekend.

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Hey did you know what happens when two highly ADHD nerds get engaged?

They forget to tell people for ages and then drop it into casual conversation and are confused that people are shocked. So uh. Yeah. Tuesday and I are gonna get married sometime!

I am not particularly good at dramatic romantic gestures, and I'm definitely not good at like. Sharing romantic things in my life with the rest of the world. There's a lot of things that make me nervous and weird about it. Tuesday doesn't make me nervous1 though! They make me happy, over and over and again, and have been doing so for many years now. And are gonna do so for many years to come, is at least the plan! I'm very happy about it!!!

The most likely time for the wedding is "Iunno, maybe 2028?", for both obvious and non-obvious reasons. We're currently in an opposite-of-race with our respective younger siblings about who can get married last, which is very funny. Tuesday has rejected my offer of "okay but hear me out, let's do like twenty weddings" but then countered with "what about one wedding per person we want to invite?" because the two of us are in love with each other but also very much in love with the bit. You'll get accurate details about how many we actually plan to have closer to when we actually decide to have it. (them >.>)

We do intend to get photos at some point, but in the meantime just keep taking cute selfies of us at places --I'll drop a nice one that she took at Pinewoods last summer in the bottom of this post. I want to get them a pretty ring, but we're doing it slow to figure out something they actually want and would wear regularly. In the meantime we've got a lovely pair of matching fidget rings we got at the Rennfaire last October. I really like wearing mine!

I don't know what else to say here. It's 2026 and America is miserable. We're both queer and every day we don't get forcibly removed from the country is a success. We are joyful and happy together and we have families that like each others company --we've started overlapping our holidays in a way that feels real successful! We still don't live in the same place, but that's a longterm plan that we want to make happen, and I like thinking about the ways my life will be like when that happens. Sometimes I'm terrified to even believe I'm allowed to have a future. I'm terrified to try and think about what might happen because all of it is just overwhelming and scary and depressing.

Sorky and Tuesday!

....But at least we'll be fighting the scary stuff together. That's pretty cool.

~Sor (and Tuesday <3)
MOOP!

1: ke does make me weird, but that's definitely on the "pro" column :3
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Today I’d had the intent to finally put the Pesach kitchen away so I can start cooking, but that hasn’t happened (yet? Maybe posting this will get me to do it?). I was already underslept by a lot, and today’s must-do’s were emotionally raw. Read more... )
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Meme reference for the title.

Dramatis Personae:

Izgil, doing bomber runs
Viepuck, more of a sniper really
Celyn, combat medic
Robin, heavy cavalry

When we left off we were travelling to the fortress of the person who took, among other things of less importance to the party, Greymalkin's wings as a trophy.

And so we headed off with our half a goat. )

Combat sessions continue pretty fast to summarize.

The case of the missing notifications

Apr. 11th, 2026 11:58 pm
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I keep forgetting to post about this: we've been troubleshooting the "missing notifications" problem for the past few days. (Well, I say "we", really I mean Mark and Robby; I'm just the amanuensis.) It's been one of those annoying loops of "find a logical explanation for what could be causing the problem, fix that thing, observe that the problem gets better for some people but doesn't go away completely, go back to step one and start again", sigh.

Mark is hauling out the heavy debugging ordinance to try to find the root cause. Once he's done building all the extra logging tools he needs, he'll comment to this entry. After he does, if you find a comment that should have gone to your inbox and sent an email notification but didn't, leave him a link to the comment that should have sent the notification, as long as the comment itself was made after Mark says he's collecting them. (I'd wait and post this after he gets the debug code in but I need to go to sleep and he's not sure how long it will take!)

We're sorry about the hassle! Irregular/sporadic issues like this are really hard to troubleshoot because it's impossible to know if they're fixed or if they're just not happening while you're looking. With luck, this will give us enough information to figure out the root cause for real this time.

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Apr. 10th, 2026 12:29 pm
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In the realm of "Somehow, not an Onion headline":

Hunter Biden challenges Trump's sons to cage match

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